"I wanted to be an open example of the positive statistics that do exist throughout our nation. Our society highlights the negative statistics when it should delight in the positive ones. It says that if you were a victim of sexual assault as a child, you are more likely to become a sex offender; if you were raised by an alcoholic you are more likely to become an alcoholic, et cetera. I write this book standing for all of those who challenge themselves to prove the least likely. We can be the majority. It is not natural to fi ght for our freedom to thrive. Unfortunately, the only way to thrive beyond survival is to fi ght for it. Those of us who live out the positive statistics hold up our fl ags of freedom knowing we fight intently and daily for that privilege."